What Rich Men Actually Look For in a Woman
Two things get conflated systematically, and the confusion costs years. For a fling, the criteria are the ones you would imagine: appearance, youth, availability. … Read more
The Journal
The places, the codes and the protections for entering high-net-worth circles.
Art Basel Miami Beach: A First-Timer’s Guide Beyond the Fair
This Art Basel Miami guide is for the woman who has never been, isn’t a collector, and doesn’t want to spend a week behind … Read more
What You Bring That He Cannot Buy
A high-net-worth man can buy almost everything that is for sale: comfort, service, company, appearance, admiration, free time. So the question is: what do … Read more
Are Elite Matchmakers Worth It? An Honest Guide for Women
Are matchmakers worth it? For some women, yes; for many, the honest answer is “it depends on which side of the database you are … Read more
Prenuptial Agreement Guide: What to Ask For When He Has More
⚠️ This article gives general information about United States law. It is not legal advice. Family law is state law, and it differs substantially … Read more
How to Get Invited to Charity Galas (and Join the Committee)
If you want to know how to get invited to charity galas, start with a plain truth: most of the people in the ballroom … Read more
The Society Calendar: Key Events Month by Month (US and UK)
This is the highest-return lever in the whole strategy, and the one nobody works on. Most women reason in terms of density: where are … Read more
Which Industries Make Millionaires? What the Data Shows
What industries produce the most millionaires? Not the ones at the top of the salary lists. Most American wealth is built by owning something, … Read more
The 10 Signs of a Dangerous Relational Profile
This article covers a subject distinct from verifying wealth. What is at stake here is not money but control. And it needs saying plainly: … Read more
The Old Money Aesthetic: What It Gets Right and Wrong
The old money aesthetic is an online trend that tries to look like inherited wealth: neutral colors, knitwear, loafers, pearls, glossy hair, no logos. … Read more
Old Money vs New Money: The 6 Markers
One prior error explains most of the missteps in these circles: believing that there is one affluent world. There are two, and they hold … Read more
Why Successful Women Struggle to Find an Equal (and What Works)
Why do successful women struggle to find a partner? The usual answers are either insulting (“you’re too picky”) or flattering (“men are intimidated by … Read more